Sure, I'll Join Your Cult: A Memoir of Mental Illness and the Quest to Belong Anywhere cover

Sure, I'll Join Your Cult: A Memoir of Mental Illness and the Quest to Belong Anywhere

by Maria Bamford

A comic on what happens when you fall apart.

For you if

you have laughed at the thing that hurts most.

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Maria Bamford is a stand-up comic who has been open about her mental illness for years, and this is the book that tells the long version. It is a chronicle of hospitals, cults and strange communities, of being a woman who was supposed to be fine, and of using comedy as a way back. Bamford is funny about the wrong things at exactly the right moments.

Where This Book Lives

Pass with note. Adult shelf; Bamford writes openly about her own psychiatric hospitalizations and suicidal thoughts, so go in knowing that. She is the author of her own story, with no documented concerns. Close relatives: Hyperbole and a Half, Ten Steps to Nanette (suggested 10-17) and The Collected Schizophrenias. Natural fit for the Mental Health bundle.

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