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The Color of Water: A Black Man's Tribute to His White Mother

by James McBride

A Black son tries to find his white mother.

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you grew up with a family secret nobody would explain.

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McBride's mother never told her twelve children she was a white Jewish woman from Virginia who had left her family and married a Black man. He tells her story in her voice, in alternating chapters with his own, and pieces together who she was. The book is about race as something you inherit and about love that doesn't explain itself.

Where This Book Lives

A memoir by a writer and musician, widely taught and occasionally challenged in schools. Dealing with family secrecy, racism, and abuse in the mother's childhood, it should be on the adult shelf. A close relative in feel is Born a Crime.

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