
Big Red Lollipop
by Rukhsana Khan
A big sister, a birthday party, and who gets included.
For you if
you remember being the kid who had to explain the rules to your parents.
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Rubina is invited to a birthday party, and her mother makes her take her little sister Sana along. Sana ruins the party, Rubina is furious, and then the next invitation arrives and Sana is the one who has to be left home. It's a small, honest story about immigrant parents who don't know the rules, and a big sister who learns what she can do about it.
Where This Book Lives
- Setting
- Canada • North America
- Voice
- Written by a Canadian author
Khan is a Canadian author of Pakistani heritage and drew on her own childhood. It's gentle and has no content flags. It sits close to Lailah's Lunchbox and The Name Jar, and it's good for talking about siblings, belonging and who is left out.
Related Viewing
Shares a topic, theme, or setting with this book in the catalog.

Bend It Like Beckham(2002)
dir. Gurinder Chadha
Same themes: Courage, Family Bonds
A Punjabi girl, a soccer ball, and a family wedding.
Jess is a British Punjabi eighteen-year-old in West London who plays soccer better than anyone in her park, and her parents want her to learn to cook a full Indian dinner. She joins a women's team behind their backs, falls for her coach, and has to find a way to be both daughters at once. It's a comedy with a wedding, an ugly sports bra and a lot of heart.
Why it’s here: The film makes a joke out of the fight between family expectations and a girl's ambition, and the girl wins on her own terms. What's punk is that Jess isn't asked to choose between her people and her game. What's pedagogical is how it handles racism, sexism and homophobia in a form a family can watch together. Pairs with Persepolis and Funny Boy.
Where to watch: Disney+; rent $3.99 on Amazon and Fandango At Home (JustWatch US)Letterboxd ↗

Atanarjuat: The Fast Runner(2001)
dir. Zacharias Kunuk
Same country: Canada
An Inuit legend, told by Inuit, in Inuktitut.
A legend passed down in the Arctic for generations: an evil spirit divides a camp, and a young man, Atanarjuat, runs naked across the ice to escape the men who want him dead. Zacharias Kunuk shot it in Igloolik with Inuit actors and Inuit elders advising, in Inuktitut. It was the first feature written, directed and acted entirely in the language, and it won the Caméra d'Or at Cannes.
Why it’s here: The film tells an Inuit story as Inuit tell it, at Inuit speed. What's punk is that it refuses outsider pacing and explanation. What's pedagogical is seeing how a community deals with a crime and a feud without police or prisons. It runs nearly three hours and has some violence. Companion to Whale Rider and Once Were Warriors.
Where to watch: Rent on Apple TV, $3.99 (JustWatch US; only US option found)Letterboxd ↗
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