
The Bastard of Istanbul
by Elif Shafak
A family kitchen with 1915 buried under it.
For you if
you have ever pushed a family secret under the table.
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In Istanbul, a houseful of Turkish women and an Armenian-American girl who comes looking for her roots discover that the family kitchen is where history is hiding. The 1915 Armenian genocide is the secret under the tablecloth, and the book is about who in the family gets to say it aloud. Warm, funny and unafraid of the subject, it is a novel about how a country's silence gets handed down.
Where This Book Lives
Pass with note. In 2006 Shafak was charged in Turkey under Article 301 for 'insulting Turkishness' over remarks by characters; the case was dismissed. Genocide is discussed, not depicted graphically. Fills a gap on denial as a political tool. Close relatives: Black Dog of Fate, The Sorrows of Mexico (silence) and Everything Is Illuminated.
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