The Art of Roughhousing
by Anthony DeBenedet & Lawrence Cohen
Roughhousing is good for kids. Science agrees. Here's how.
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you want permission and a practical guide to getting on the floor and playing rough with your kid in the way your instincts have always told you was good
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Roughhousing — pillow fights, wrestling, chasing, tumbling — has been designed out of modern childhood in the name of safety, and DeBenedet and Cohen argue this is a serious mistake. Physical play is how children learn to regulate emotion, read social cues, take appropriate risks, and develop the confidence that comes from their body doing hard things. The book is both a manifesto for bringing roughhousing back and a practical guide to doing it safely and joyfully. The most fun book on this shelf and the one that most directly applies to the DoCR philosophy: children learn through making and doing and moving, not through sitting still.
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