
Stargirl
by Jerry Spinelli
The new girl is kind on purpose. School punishes it.
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your teen has felt the pull to blend in.
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Leo's high school is a place where everybody tries to look the same. Then a new girl arrives who wears a floor-length dress, carries a ukulele and a pet rat, and sings Happy Birthday to strangers. The school adores her, and then it turns on her. A short novel about conformity, shunning and what the crowd does to people who are kind on purpose.
Where This Book Lives
- Setting
- United States • North America
- Voice
- Written by an American author
Pass with note. Ages 11-14. Gentle, though shunning and heartbreak are central. Frequently taught in middle school and the sequel Love, Stargirl follows. Spinelli is already in the catalog's suggestion log (Maniac Magee, 10-31). Close relatives: The Giver and The Misfits.
Related Viewing
Shares a topic, theme, or setting with this book in the catalog.

To Be and to Have (Être et avoir)(2002)
dir. Nicolas Philibert
Same themes: Community, Courage
One teacher, one room, ages four to eleven.
A year in a one-room village school in the Auvergne, France, where a single teacher, Georges Lopez, teaches children from four to eleven. Philibert watches without narration: a boy who won't write, a fight over a lost cap, a farm child learning to read. It became one of the biggest French documentaries ever.
Why it’s here: The film is a record of a teacher who lets time and mixed ages do much of the work. What's punk is the absence of rankings and tests, and that nothing happens except learning. What's pedagogical is how it shows a classroom without a screen, a mixed-age group and a patient adult. A quiet companion to The Class and Summerhill School. Note: Lopez sued the director in 2003 for a share of the profits and lost.
Where to watch: Free on Kanopy and Hoopla; Kino Film Collection $5.99/mo (JustWatch US, Oct 2026)Letterboxd ↗

Bend It Like Beckham(2002)
dir. Gurinder Chadha
Same themes: Courage, Friendship
A Punjabi girl, a soccer ball, and a family wedding.
Jess is a British Punjabi eighteen-year-old in West London who plays soccer better than anyone in her park, and her parents want her to learn to cook a full Indian dinner. She joins a women's team behind their backs, falls for her coach, and has to find a way to be both daughters at once. It's a comedy with a wedding, an ugly sports bra and a lot of heart.
Why it’s here: The film makes a joke out of the fight between family expectations and a girl's ambition, and the girl wins on her own terms. What's punk is that Jess isn't asked to choose between her people and her game. What's pedagogical is how it handles racism, sexism and homophobia in a form a family can watch together. Pairs with Persepolis and Funny Boy.
Where to watch: Disney+; rent $3.99 on Amazon and Fandango At Home (JustWatch US)Letterboxd ↗
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