
Minor Feelings: An Asian American Reckoning
by Cathy Park Hong
The feelings nobody lets you have.
For you if
you've been told your hurt isn't real or isn't big enough to count.
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Hong names the feeling Asian Americans are told they don't have: the daily low-grade gaslighting of being told your racial hurt is imaginary, or smaller than someone else's. Her essays move through poetry, comedy, family and the politics of the art world, and they are angry and funny in the same sentence. It gives you vocabulary for something you may have carried without a name.
Where This Book Lives
Frank about anger, depression and racism, and unapologetically personal. Fills a gap beside Thick and Heavy; the catalog has little Asian American nonfiction. Confirm the paperback price.
Related Viewing
Shares a topic, theme, or setting with this book in the catalog.

Dear White People(2014)
dir. Justin Simien
Same themes: Race and Identity, Race in America
Campus satire about being Black in white rooms.
At the fictional Ivy League Winchester University, a student named Sam White hosts a campus radio show called Dear White People, and a blackface party blows the campus open. The film follows four Black students working out who they are in a place that wants them to be one thing. A campus satire played straight, with sharp jokes and no easy heroes.
Why it’s here: The film takes the 'post-racial' campus story and shows how every Black student is asked to perform one version of themselves. What's punk is that the satire turns on its own heroes too. What's pedagogical is the vocabulary it gives you: code-switching, respectability, who gets to define blackness. It sits next to Sorry to Bother You in the catalog.
Where to watch: Free on Kanopy, Hoopla; Prime VideoLetterboxd ↗

Bamboozled(2000)
dir. Spike Lee
Same theme: Internalized Racism
The minstrel show, on prime time.
Pierre Delacroix, a Black TV writer, pitches a modern minstrel show as a deliberate insult to get fired, and the network loves it. It becomes a hit, and the satire spins out of his control. It was shot on digital video and is one of Lee's most uncomfortable films.
Why it’s here: The film turns the lens on who profits from caricature and who agrees to wear it. What's punk is that Lee refuses to make it comfortable: the audience laughing is the target. What's pedagogical is media literacy in its harshest form: how a joke becomes a product, and how the person making it stops being able to say no. It contains harsh imagery by design. Pairs with Sorry to Bother You and Network.
Where to watch: Rent only: Amazon, Apple TV, Fandango At Home (~$3.99)Letterboxd ↗
Same pattern, different era
Different time, different place. The same thing keeps happening.
Dear Martin
Nic Stone

Letters to MLK from a kid in handcuffs.
✦ READ – REFLECT → RESIST
How to Be Black
Baratunde Thurston

A self-help book that takes race apart.
✦ READ – REFLECT → RESIST
Lives on the Boundary: The Struggles and Achievements of America’s Educationally Underprepared
Mike Rose

The kids school labels remedial are not dumb.
✦ READ – REFLECT → RESIST
Persepolis
Marjane Satrapi

Rebellion drawn in black ink.
✦ READ – REFLECT → RESIST
For the family bookshelf
Same idea, written for a younger reader. Good for reading together.
Fun Home: A Family Tragicomic
Alison Bechdel

The memoir that made the closet visible.
✦ READ – REFLECT → RESIST
Ghost Boys
Jewell Parker Rhodes

A boy killed by police tells it himself.
✦ READ – REFLECT → RESIST
New Kid
Jerry Craft

Middle school, race, and real talk.
✦ READ – REFLECT → RESIST
Piecing Me Together
Renée Watson

She earned the scholarship. She's tired of being the diversity program.
✦ READ – REFLECT → RESIST
